Tis the Season

The season of change that is. Ever heard that saying about people being in your life for a season or a lifetime. Well that is what this post is all about. I have come to realize that some of my relationships have been kept well past their due dates.

I have come to a point in my life where I am only wanting to be around positive people; people who are encouraging, full of life and love. I feel bad that I did not notice or simply overlooked the very judgemental ways of some of these people. I guess when it was not directed at me it did not matter but I now seem to notice and it irritates the hell out of me.

If you consider someone a friend then why are you always talking about them and how trifling you think they are when quite frankly you are only in a slightly better position. Why not be a real friend and try to encourage them to do better. One person in particular just seems to think that it is not their problem and why should they care. But wait, isn't this person supposedly your friend. How can you sit in judgement of someone else. Come on !!

Then they are those to whom everything is a competition, no matter what you accomplish they find a way to try to outshine you or say that "oh well, I did such and such". Are you kidding me? Are you that insecure that you have to play this game.
You can't just be happy for me?

I said all of this to say that there are several people who will be deliberately dismissed from my life. You have proven that you are not truly a friend in one way or another or I have simply had enough of the bullshit that is you. I can no longer make excuses or even overlook the drama that you bring to my life. Tired of you trying to control what was supposed to be a friendship hoping to keep your flaws hidden. Just because I don't throw them in your face doesn't mean I can't see them.

Here is a hint "if you can't be broken with your friends,then who can you be you with".

So the season of change has begun for me. Over the next 30 days I will be letting go of some of these toxic situations.

Smooche

Carla