Maturity

I pay close attention to people and what they do and don't say and I quickly learn major parts of their personalities. This guy has put together this big alumni event for our high school and has done what I believe to be a great job... Now shortly a month before the event another classmate is trying to cause drama and somehow I ended up being the referee... Now the creator of the event has always been pretty laid back and when the comments first came up on facebook I responded to the drama king to ward off a verbal assault from the creator.. I answered the questions and try to get him to leave it at that since he already said he was not going to attend the event..

In my humble opinion his intention was to cause confusion that would cause people not to attend the event in the first place since he believed that the creator did that to him when he organized last year's event.. I knew from the start that this would get out of hand so I took the mama in me and did what I always do.. I also thanked the creator for being calm and not rising to take the bait. However some of my girls did not take too kindly to situation and preceded to publicly tell off the drama king.. Now he emails me asking me to take to the creator and let him know that he is sorry. WTH do I look like apologizing for you. If you were not trying to start anything why do you need to apologize for it. I talked to the event creator this morning and again praised him for not taking the bait and even asked him to continue to ignore the drama king here on out.

This drama is not over because the drama king craves attention. I find it difficult to deal with men who like drama. I think men should be men and leave the pettiness to women to fight over. Let me tell you jealousy in a man is the most unflattering thing ever on a man. And I think the drama king suffers from a huge dose of jealousy. If he not the center of attention he has to find a way to bring the attention to him even if that means copying someone else.. A young lady who reads this blog is always posting these thought provoking questions that are often relationship based and it sparks a lot of comments, so the drama king attempts to o the same thing except his questions are often vulgar in nature an does not spark the same type of answers. I would love to tell him how people really see him but I do not wish to hurt his feelings, but the day is coming and people it is gonna break his heart.
I never understand why people don't mature, and he is a prime example of someone who has not changed since high school and I find that fact simply mindblowing..... I will be back later today